I am Kane Wolfe,

an Atlanta based Dom with 2 years experience in the kink community. For me, kink isn’t just a physical activity. There is a whole other side that often gets misrepresented or left out. My approach is best described as “Love People. Dominate Them.”(TM) which to me, means that every person has value inside and outside of the role they may play in a dynamic. I spend a lot of my time encouraging subs to advocate for themselves in every aspect of their lives, including, but not limited to, the bedroom. A true dom/sub relationship should be built on mutual trust and respect. This should be the cornerstone of any healthy relationship regardless of whether or not a power dynamic is involved. Submission and control require honesty, communication, and knowledge of oneself.

The kink community as a whole is vast and varied. I maintain a safe space in all of my interactions with others in the community so long as their practices involve knowledgeable, informed consent. I keep this same approach with those outside the community in an effort to dispel some of the misinformation that exists. I want to show the supportive side of the kink community that focuses on more than just sex. Lets open a dialogue about sex, dominance, trust, empowerment, mental health, and personal growth.

I am also the caretaker of Penny the narwhal, read more here.